I have no where to vent... and so since I only have one follower, I'm taking advantage of this while I can.
My husband has a football card obsession. At first, I would have classically described it as a collection, however lately... it's far more than that. Working a miner's shiftwork, he just rolled off nights. Me being anxious to spend time with my husband, I was antsy to wake him at 3pm. And it seems that today, just like every other day recently, has been spent in front of his computer, watching football card box breaks. Basically, to explain to those of you who aren't familiar (I wasn't until recently...) insane people buy these extremely overpriced boxes of packages of cards which hold a ridiculous resale value, put up a bid online for a "buy in" and those people pick teams and pay, say... $3/team they want cards from. And my husband has had me check the mail every day since Tuesday to check for packages of those cards he's "won" from those card breaks. I'm about to lose my mind. And the reason I'm about to lose my mind, is because I'm anxiously awaiting time to be spent with ME. But even as I sit here and type, it being almost 2:15am... the TV is on and his computer is open and he's watching a football card box break with some southern redneck babbling about his first Tim Tebow card, like I'm supposed to listen and care. I try, but it's getting really old... really quick. No longer does he have the attention for me. We started Avatar at about 9pm... he paused it to go to the bathroom where he took advantage of watching a box break... and upon returning to the couch... that's where he's stayed. Computer open, random box break babblers talking away in their football gibberish... not really talking but to extend what sounds to me like a pity "I love you" from down the hall. With Avatar still paused.
Yay for being married to a football card junkie.
You have to eventually tell him that you feel ignored because of this. It will just make you bitter if you don't. They are surprisingly ok with it and even a little flattered when you tell them you want more time with them. Mine is anyways! Men love to feel wanted by their woman!
ReplyDeleteI told him. LOL. And it went straight into a pity party. And the next day, he sat quiet on the couch watching TV because I "didn't want him on his computer"... So it was a 2 day dramatic adventure in our house. Thanks for the advice. I'm hoping he likes being bombarded by my affection :)
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